Recapping SW&CR: The Conflict Between Rey and Kylo (Ch. 8)

Chapter 8: “Rey & Kylo Ren: Constructive Conflict Escalation” (Ty Spradley & Elizabeth Spradley)

In this chapter, the two principal characters of the sequel trilogy are force-pushed into the center of our conflict resolution galaxy. The main question: How is it that two opposing forces are able to come together to become a united front when so many innate differences exist among the characters’ goals and aspirations throughout their respective journeys? Throughout this chapter, instances of the two characters’ head-to-head confrontations are painted in a unique way that illustrates the growth of each as dynamic characters and as navigators of conflict.

This chapter takes the idea of conflict escalation but in the realm of using the escalation constructively to form a working relationship that would otherwise be non-cooperative or downright adversarial. Examining key behaviors displayed by both Rey and Ren, the authors show how each behavior sets the stage for a constructive relationship to come even as the conflicts between the two escalate to a level of hostility we often see reserved for a young Darth Vader and [insert name of anyone in Star Wars lore].

After working through this chapter, the authors pose a challenge to their readers to embark on some self-reflection and evaluation of their own. Where in their lives do they see a parallel connection to the ideas, examples of conflicts, and opportunities for constructive behaviors discussed here in this chapter? How can we as a society grow and learn from our intergalactic, star-crossed Romeo and Juliet? Search inward and with an open mind, and an answer you shall find.

— Written by Sam Haimowitz, SW&CR Padawan and newly graduated JD from the University of Oregon School of Law